T O P I C R E V I E W |
ChildofVenus | Regardless of the other persons birth time. We still have a Sun/Moon aspect. I changed it to different times of the day just to see if the aspect would change. The person might have Moon in Sagittarius. I'm the blue and the other person is the red. Do you think we could be good friends? |
mereiposa | I don't see this as having a lot of lasting potential. He's kind of your type bcs he is a Sun opposite Uranus and your 7th is ruled by Aqua/Uranus. He does hit your venus and neptune and uranus (important rulers in your chart) but he's not hitting them in positive ways. And you don't have a lot of stress aspects to these in your natal chart, so I feel like this is attraction that will go south after a while. His moon may be in your 5th, which could be a positive, but it could be in your 4th. I just don't think that's enough. Is this one you wanted for long term potential? I just don't get a great feel from this one. |
ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by mereiposa: I don't see this as having a lot of lasting potential. He's kind of your type bcs he is a Sun opposite Uranus and your 7th is ruled by Aqua/Uranus. He does hit your venus and neptune and uranus (important rulers in your chart) but he's not hitting them in positive ways. And you don't have a lot of stress aspects to these in your natal chart, so I feel like this is attraction that will go south after a while. His moon may be in your 5th, which could be a positive, but it could be in your 4th. I just don't think that's enough. Is this one you wanted for long term potential? I just don't get a great feel from this one.
No he's just someone I want to be friends with maybe a friends with benefits type thing. I guess the Sun/Moon aspects and his Saturn in aspect of my Moon and Mercury don't mean much of anything?
|
ChildofVenus | I don't have his correct birth time. But we do have a Sun/Moon aspect. |
ChildofVenus | Attraction that will go south on my part? What about the Jupiter aspects? I thought we could be friends since he asked me to hang out but I guess not. I just wanted us to be friends I don't ever seem to be compatible with anyone I want to be friends with. I think maybe I will just leave astrology out of this because sometimes it's discouraging. |
ChildofVenus | I'm upset because I want to be friends with him. |
margym0o | quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: I'm upset because I want to be friends with him.
If you are taking astrology as gospel to tell you who you should/should not associate with then you are doing yourself a disservice. Astrology is merely POTENTIAL as there is no way of knowing exactly how a relationship will turn out. I have a couple married friends together for 9 years with two children and their synastry and composite is TERRIBLE in my opinion. So...you never know! I would follow your gut instincts first and if you really like someone and want to be their friend, then do so!!!! Only if issues arise should you be seriously consulting the charts. And hey if your attraction to him ends up going south well then so be it! That could happen with any guy.
|
ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by margym0o: If you are taking astrology as gospel to tell you who you should/should not associate with then you are doing yourself a disservice.Astrology is merely POTENTIAL as there is no way of knowing exactly how a relationship will turn out. I have a couple married friends together for 9 years with two children and their synastry and composite is TERRIBLE in my opinion. So...you never know! I would follow your gut instincts first and if you really like someone and want to be their friend, then do so!!!! Only if issues arise should you be seriously consulting the charts. And hey if your attraction to him ends up going south well then so be it! That could happen with any guy.
So are you saying that I'm the only one who is attracted? That he's not attracted to me?
|
margym0o | quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: So are you saying that I'm the only one who is attracted? That he's not attracted to me?
Only you would know that How does he treat you in real life? |
ChildofVenus | His Sun and Venus trine my Moon I thought those aspects in synasty were favorable. I read those were two of the most important aspects two people can have. So I don't think it's only about him having Sun opposite Uranus. |
ChildofVenus | quote: Originally posted by margym0o: Only you would know that How does he treat you in real life?
We have never really been around each other. I've only ever saw him in the store. But he's always been nice towards me. But that could just be his personality. |
mereiposa | I think if you want to be friends, then be friends! Remember the days when you didn't know astrology and just decided if you liked someone or not? Do that! Friendship charts are different than romantic. And I don't know that crossing friends with FWB always points to lasting connections either. So if you want to be friends, be friends. If you want to be FWB, be FWB. Let things play out how they should. |
Randall | Bump! |
EmGem | quote: Originally posted by mereiposa: I think if you want to be friends, then be friends! Remember the days when you didn't know astrology and just decided if you liked someone or not? Do that!Friendship charts are different than romantic. And I don't know that crossing friends with FWB always points to lasting connections either. So if you want to be friends, be friends. If you want to be FWB, be FWB. Let things play out how they should.
|